Thursday, March 24, 2011

teselli etmek/ to console

Bana zor gelen seylerden biri baskalarini Halis'in durumuyla ilgili olarak teselli etmek durumunda olusum. Yasadigimiz bu berbat durum, Halis'i sevenleri cok uzuyor, insanlar, dostlarimiz, o kadar uzuluyor ki bazen onlari teselli etmek durumunda buluyorum kendimi. "daha iyi"diyorum, hafif yalancilik yaptigim da oluyor. 2 yildir cerceveci Kani Aksoy'a gitmekten kaciniyordum. Onun icten uzuntusunu gormek zordu, ta ki gecenlerde, nereden duymussa, kendisi aradi. Tabii korktugum gibi de oldu, sevgi baska birsey iste. Ayni sekilde Sener Aral, Dumrul Cemgil, Tasbasli akrabalari,

What is sometimes difficult is having to console others about Halis' situation. This terrible situation that we are in makes people who love Halis very sad. Our friends are so sad to hear about it that I am often in a position to give them solace. I tell them "he's better", sometimes lie a bit. I have been avoiding going to framer Kani Aksoy for 2 years because it was so difficult to bear his sincere sorrow last time. Until the other day, not sure where he heard from, Kani called and it turned out as I expected. A friend's love is something else. Similarly with Sener Aral, Dumrul Cemgil, the relatives from the Tasbas village...

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